Odette Butler.
Odette Butler. Credit: COURTESY

Picture this: a preschooler races into our Wednesday program, proudly holding a stick. Not just any stick, the stick he found to share with the new buddy he made the week before while climbing rocks together. Across the room, two parents are laughing over their toddlersโ€™ refusal to eat anything but Goldfish crackers that week. This is what happens when families come together at The River Center: kids make friends, parents feel seen and everyone leaves with a little more joy (and maybe a little glitter on their clothes).

That’s the magic of our parenting programs at The River Center. We are lucky to have a team that brings heart, creativity and expertise to every program we offer. This month, I want to shine a spotlight on one of our very best: Nicole Daniels, our lead childrenโ€™s teacher. If youโ€™ve joined us for Wild Wednesdays, Messy Mondays or any of our Music & Movement classes, chances are youโ€™ve already seen Nicole in action, encouraging curiosity, building connections and making learning downright fun. Nicole is the kind of person who notices the little things: the leaf underfoot, the rock worth collecting, the proud grin when a child finally shares a toy. When you ask her why she does this work, sheโ€™ll tell you:

โ€œI love seeing kids just be kids and helping parents realize weโ€™re all figuring it out together. We all have highs and lows, and to be able to connect, trust, celebrate and support one another through it all, thatโ€™s powerful.โ€

Nicole Daniels, children's teacher at The River Center
Nicole Daniels, children’s teacher at The River Center Credit: COURTESY

Families feel it too. As one parent put it, โ€œLove, love, love these programs ๐Ÿ™‚ Thank you for all the support!!โ€ Another shared, โ€œNicole & Lindsay make such a safe, fun environment. We looked forward to every Wednesday!โ€

So, what do the programs Nicole contributes to look like? Letโ€™s take a peek:

  • Wild Wednesdays: Nature becomes the classroom. Kids climb rocks, splash in puddles and dig in the dirt, while parents breathe fresh air and share conversation. Itโ€™s messy, unpredictable and always memorable, rain or shine.
  • Messy Mondays: Paint, glue, shaving cream and who-knows-what-else. The beauty? You donโ€™t have to clean it up at home. Children get to explore textures, colors and creativity, while parents watch the fun unfold.
  • Tiny Tots Music & Movement: For little ones ages 1โ€“3, this program is all about singing, dancing and wiggling with caregivers. It builds listening skills, sharing, cooperation and kindness, all disguised as fun.
  • Small Fries Music & Movement: A โ€œbig kidโ€ version of Tiny Tots, this is a drop-off class for 4โ€“5-year-olds. Kids build confidence as they sing, dance and work together, while parents get a much-appreciated chance to connect in another room.
  • Walk & Talk: Parenting can feel overwhelming. Sometimes the best medicine is fresh air and good company. Families gather at local trails and walk together, kids run ahead, parents chat and everyone leaves recharged.
  • Mini Explorers: Think adventure. Kids ages 2โ€“5-years-old get to meet for hikes or to explore places like MacDowell dam, The Harris Center, Shieling Forest, all of which have trails to explore, while caregivers encourage and connect with one another.
  • Pop-Up Play & Create: Each month, Nicole brings themed crafts and activities to local libraries. Families of all ages drop in to make something seasonal and fun.
  • Troy Toddler Time: A Friday morning favorite at the Samuel E. Paul Community Center. Toddlers get to run, play, make crafts and hear stories while parents sip coffee, chase little ones and chat. Older siblings are welcome, too.
  • Generations Together: Meeting at RiverMead retirement community and mingling with the residents hiking, playing, exploring, doing a craft or enjoying a story makes everyone happy.

The goals of the programs are the same: creating space for kids to thrive and parents to feel supported. Nicole says she knows the programs are working when she sees children looking forward to reconnecting with friends week after week, or when she watches parents rally around one another with advice, encouragement or simply a listening ear.

And hereโ€™s something weโ€™re proud to say: Our programs are high-quality, thoughtfully designed and every bit as enriching as the ones youโ€™ll find at for-profit centers with a much higher price tag. The only difference? We keep them affordable so every family can join. When families who can pay full price do so, it helps us keep the doors open for everyone. Thatโ€™s how we grow a stronger, more connected community.

So, if youโ€™ve been waiting for a sign to try one of our Parenting Programsโ€ฆthis is it.ย Head to our website atย rivercenternh.org, check out the schedule and sign up. Bring your kids, your questions, your coffee (yes, please!) and come join us.

Because parenting is messy, musical and a whole lot more fun when we do it together.